e3 Coaching
  • Home
  • About Me
  • Coaching
  • Services
  • Dental Coaching
  • Testimonials
  • Contact
  • Home
  • About Me
  • Coaching
  • Services
  • Dental Coaching
  • Testimonials
  • Contact

BLOG

IT IS, WHAT IT IS – HOW TO MAKE PEACE WITH YOURSELF

12/15/2010

0 Comments

 
“If I have lost confidence in myself, I have the universe against me.”
-  Ralph Waldo Emerson


 

On our path through our lives we often get “stuck.” A situation presents itself that we would rather not have to deal with. You may want to wish it away or just ignore it altogether. The challenge is for you to decide what you are able and willing to do about it. It is, what it is, right? You will help yourself navigate your life much better when you do go with the flow of the universe rather than trying to go against the currents.

 

Whatever the “it is” for you, this experience has manifested itself for you to learn something valuable from it. I have been reading an interesting book, titled Pocket Peace, by Allan Lokos that gives insight into practical effective practices for enlightened living. One of the suggestions he offered was really profound for me and I can relate to it and also for everyone else. It is: Consider how your discomfort with a particular situation might be eased by accepting things as they are.

 

The author believes that suffering usually results from wanting things to be different from the way they are. He recommends giving yourself some quiet time to reflect while opening your heart and mind to change your perspective. To remind yourself that even if a particular difficult situation you are now confronting seems insurmountable, it is not fixed or solid. It will change somehow, some way. Then, even after your contemplation you deem the situation to be unacceptable; you will be calmer in dealing with it and developing an improved, more grounded viewpoint. Therefore, the lesson here is a tough one to learn when you really want things to be different than they are in reality. You may not be able to change what has happened, but you do have the ability to begin the process of your acceptance of it. What one resists, does persist. Once you have begun to gracefully accept the problem, you will give then yourself the gift of perseverance and inner strength to impact  and guide your future outcomes. Accept it for what it is, and then feel the tension and anxiety diminish inside you. Be at peace with yourself.

 

As always, I invite your comments.

0 Comments

    Archives

    September 2014
    November 2012
    September 2012
    July 2012
    April 2012
    March 2012
    February 2012
    January 2012
    December 2011
    October 2011
    September 2011
    August 2011
    June 2011
    May 2011
    April 2011
    March 2011
    January 2011
    December 2010
    November 2010
    September 2010
    August 2010
    July 2010
    June 2010
    May 2010
    April 2010
    March 2010
    February 2010
    October 2009
    September 2009
    August 2009

    Categories

    All
    Acceptance
    Accountability
    Aging Wellness
    Attitude
    Becoming A Giving Person
    Being In The Moment
    Being Present
    Coulda Shoulda Woulda
    Dealing With Changes
    Dealing With Energy Vampires
    Empathy For Others
    Happiness
    Happiness & Fulfillment
    Intuition
    Laws Of Attraction
    Learning To Ask For Help From Others
    Money & Happiness
    New Year's Challenges
    Perception & Perspective
    Readiness To Make Changes
    Ready To Make Changes By Planning
    Self Control & Intuition
    Selfishness
    Wabi Sabi - Coping With Imperfections
    Work Ethics

    RSS Feed

Powered by Create your own unique website with customizable templates.